I danced with a gal with a hole in her stocking
And her knees were a-knockin' and her shoes were a-rockin'
I danced with a gal with a hole in her stocking
And we danced by the light of the moon
Buffalo gals won't you come out tonight
Come out tonight, come out tonight
Buffalo gals won't you come out tonight
And we'll dance by the light of the moon
In March of 2008, my mother took me to HSBC Arena to see Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band. I knew a few of his songs Hungry Heart, Dancing in the Dark, Born to Run but wasnt too well versed in his music. I studied up on his major songs for a good month or two beforehand so that I could heartily sing along to the ones that everyone knew. I enjoyed listening to him, but at this point, he was just another musician who my mother absolutely adored and who I tolerated fairly well.
I now firmly believe that if you are sort of a Springsteen fan before you go to an E Street concert, you will be completely converted afterwards. Im an avid concertgoer and dont like to throw around the word best when it comes to concerts, but E Street is definitely in a league of its own. I was absolutely blown away that night, and have been a passionate Bruce fan since. My mother and I have attended two concerts since that one one in East Rutherford, NJ, and one in Hershey, PA, because no car ride is too long when it ends with a Bruce concert- and are trying to figure out tickets for the upcoming HSBC gig. When my friends hear music coming from my room, they expect it to be Bruce. Just last night, my housemates and I were relaxing with music from one of our i-Pods, and he told me that I could pick the music, adding, But I dont have any Springsteen, so
I wrote a term paper for a music class last year on Bruce Springsteen. Its a lifestyle.
At that first concert in March, Bruce announced that they were going to debut a song for the tour that night, and launched into a rip-roaring version of the traditional song that my grandmother would sing to me when I was falling asleep as a child: Buffalo Gals.
I named this blog Hole in Her Stocking not only as a tribute to that life-changing night at the E Street Band concert but as a tribute to the Queen City herself. I believe that part of the reason that Bruce speaks so clearly to me is because I am a Buffalo Gal. He writes from a working class background and writes about needing to find yourself in a world that isnt so kind to all of us, and he writes about being true to yourself and still having a good time. And I think that encapsulates so much of what Buffalo is about.
We Western New York women are more than aware of the fact that the City of Good Neighbors and her surrounding areas are not going through the best times right now. The Queen City herself, you could say, has a hole in her stocking.
But through all of the economic troubles, through all of the uncertainties and the hardships, we keep on rocking.
When I realized that Bruce was playing a song that was about Buffalo Gals, about me and about the women that I know, I was filled with pride. And I remain filled with pride. I live in Geneseo to attend the SUNY college there for eight months out of the year, but I am thrilled each and every time I return to the area. Im proud to represent Western New York out here with those from Rochester and Albany and Long Island, and Im proud to be blogging for women who know what its like to go out and dance by the light of the moon.
Welcome to Hole in Her Stocking.
Tuesday, September 29. 2009
Buffalo Gals
The Search For Boots

For years I have been searching for the coveted fashion boot. I wanted the kind of boot that went up to almost your knee that you could pair with a knee length skirt.
It was true. Each season the boot was all the rage and each year I would scour stores looking for something that would fit my calves. I must have tried on a few hundred pairs.
You see, I was not blessed with model thin calves. I had the calves that no one wants. No matter what I did, I could never get them down a size to fit into the real person boot.
I wanted them to fit into the fashion scene. I enjoyed fashion and knew that if I could obtain them they would be my best accessory to make my greatest outfit. Some outfits just needed that and mine were always absent.
Last year, my mom suggested I try Lane Bryant for boots. To no avail I was shot down there. They only sell boots online and because I vary in sizes between a nine and 10, I was not happy about randomly selecting a size and praying that it would work on my foot.
Needless to say I nixed that idea, although it was a good one.
Sunday my search ended. After all of those years I thought I should just throw in the towel, I never did.
I never gave up hope.
Walking through the mall I stopped at Payless.
Now I am a shoe fanatic. I was just thinking to myself how I had not purchased a pair of shoes in quite some time and that I was due.
I walked into Payless and low and behold there was a boot that looked like it would fit my calf.
I tried them on before realizing that the tag read wide width calves. They fit perfectly, they were made for me. They were my glass slipper I had been waiting for for many years.
Moral of the story is no matter what you seek, dont give up hope. Keep trying until you obtain your dreams and never settle.
Monday, September 28. 2009
They Told Me I Was Crazy
I love dogs, I always have.
Now I have children and they love dogs.
I started thinking maybe it was time for my family to take on a new member.
Something in the form of a four legged, non-shedding, simply adorable puppy.
I began making inquiries.
Everyone told me I was crazy, puppies are so much work, my kids are too young.
In typical fashion I did not listen.
Two weeks ago I brought home a snuggly, cuddly, yorkie-chon puppy.
What can I say . someone should have REALLY warned me!
I wake up (way too early)
Take him outside
Come inside
Feed him
Start making coffee
Step in pee-pee,
Clean up pee-pee
Take him out
Bring him in
Feed him
Find a poop
Clean up poop
And so on.
Ive had a successful career, Ive had two children, and Ive traveled the world.
Is it possible that this 6lbs fluff ball will defeat me?
I have downloaded the e-books, Ive googled Cesar Millan, Ive yelled, I admit Ive even cried.
This has to be normal. Its just the puppy stage
Please, Oh please tell me its normal.
Kat James
Now I have children and they love dogs.
I started thinking maybe it was time for my family to take on a new member.
Something in the form of a four legged, non-shedding, simply adorable puppy.
I began making inquiries.
Everyone told me I was crazy, puppies are so much work, my kids are too young.
In typical fashion I did not listen.
Two weeks ago I brought home a snuggly, cuddly, yorkie-chon puppy.
What can I say . someone should have REALLY warned me!
I wake up (way too early)
Take him outside
Come inside
Feed him
Start making coffee
Step in pee-pee,
Clean up pee-pee
Take him out
Bring him in
Feed him
Find a poop
Clean up poop
And so on.
Ive had a successful career, Ive had two children, and Ive traveled the world.
Is it possible that this 6lbs fluff ball will defeat me?
I have downloaded the e-books, Ive googled Cesar Millan, Ive yelled, I admit Ive even cried.
This has to be normal. Its just the puppy stage
Please, Oh please tell me its normal.
Kat James
Thursday, September 24. 2009
Falling for Fall
I know most people hate the realization that summer has come to an end.
I however love feeling that cool, crisp nip in the air.
FALL
In my opinion the best season for fashion!
There are so many amazing trends out there this year. I will touch on all of them in my upcoming entries, but today I wanted to focus on the front runner of the pack....
THE BOOT
There are two distinct styles showing this fall: The Ankle Bootie & The Riding Boot.
I highly recommend the riding boot. It is easy to wear and adds instant style and cool to any outfit.
Pair them with leggings and an oversized sweater, wear them with a tailored skirt and blazer. Basically anything goes.
The best part is the look is a flat heal, making them totally wearable for any occasion.
From dropping off kids at school, lunch with girls, going out with your guy.
Not only will you look hot, trust me you will feel it!
Kat
I however love feeling that cool, crisp nip in the air.
FALL
In my opinion the best season for fashion!
There are so many amazing trends out there this year. I will touch on all of them in my upcoming entries, but today I wanted to focus on the front runner of the pack....
THE BOOT
There are two distinct styles showing this fall: The Ankle Bootie & The Riding Boot.
I highly recommend the riding boot. It is easy to wear and adds instant style and cool to any outfit.
Pair them with leggings and an oversized sweater, wear them with a tailored skirt and blazer. Basically anything goes.
The best part is the look is a flat heal, making them totally wearable for any occasion.
From dropping off kids at school, lunch with girls, going out with your guy.
Not only will you look hot, trust me you will feel it!
Kat
Tuesday, September 22. 2009
To cook or not to cook? That is the question.
As a woman it's often presumed that it is in our DNA to not only be masterful in the kitchen, but also enjoy it.
I'll just lay it out there; this trait is greatly lacking in my genetic make up.
Having lived in big cities most my life, where your kitchen is approximately the size of a small closet, you never feel like cooking is an essential part of daily living.
As long as you are readily stocked with the entertaining basics you're good to go.
These include, but are not limited to:
1. Wine
2. Diet soda
3. Olives
4. Microwave popcorn
5. A substantial inventory of take-out menus
I no longer live in that big city, I no longer dwell in a one bedroom apartment and I am learning that it may be time to expand my cooking skills, as well as my shopping list.
Only problem is, I don't want to learn to cook. I'm not interested in spending hours preparing a meal, that will then be consumed in a matter of minuets, with the hope of a possible "yum" or "good stuff" in between mouthfuls.
Does this make me a bad wife?
Does this make me a bad mother?
Don't get me wrong I feed them of course. Usually it's something made with tenderness and love from the Wegman's prepared food section.
I then, with all the TLC I can muster up, heat it, serve it and recycle the plastic container it came in.
Kat James
I'll just lay it out there; this trait is greatly lacking in my genetic make up.
Having lived in big cities most my life, where your kitchen is approximately the size of a small closet, you never feel like cooking is an essential part of daily living.
As long as you are readily stocked with the entertaining basics you're good to go.
These include, but are not limited to:
1. Wine
2. Diet soda
3. Olives
4. Microwave popcorn
5. A substantial inventory of take-out menus
I no longer live in that big city, I no longer dwell in a one bedroom apartment and I am learning that it may be time to expand my cooking skills, as well as my shopping list.
Only problem is, I don't want to learn to cook. I'm not interested in spending hours preparing a meal, that will then be consumed in a matter of minuets, with the hope of a possible "yum" or "good stuff" in between mouthfuls.
Does this make me a bad wife?
Does this make me a bad mother?
Don't get me wrong I feed them of course. Usually it's something made with tenderness and love from the Wegman's prepared food section.
I then, with all the TLC I can muster up, heat it, serve it and recycle the plastic container it came in.
Kat James
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